Getting that first job is the greatest first obstacle, and no-fun at all! It felt like I’d never get my first real job, and I felt as if I’d submitted my resume at a million places. This was before the internet was a force for employment, and each time I mailed a resume I was terrified I’d mis-spelled something or mailed it to the wrong address. (Yes, we used snail mail still!) I had just moved to Kansas City and everything was new and exciting. I applied to every job that I thought I was even slightly qualified for. I went to multiple interviews before I was offered my first position as a support worker for the foster care program in Kansas City, KS. It was a very difficult job for very little pay and the hours were terrible, and I found another job as quickly as I could.
BUT, I look back at that job as the most important job I’ve ever had! I learned how to be self-directed in my work, hold myself accountable to difficult tasks, make hard phone calls, power through difficult situations, and look a person in the eye when telling them really bad news. It made me motivated to work harder to make the lives of people living in the margins better, sooner. It made me passionate about protective services, but also practice the judgment when giving someone a chance to correct their errors.
My advice is this: Don’t back away from a terribly difficult first job. It may end up be the job you look back on as
the
reason you are inspired to keep going, even when life gets really tough.