Stalking
What is Stalking?
Most states define stalking as
the willful, malicious, and repeated following and harassing of
another person. All states have laws against stalking.
Stalking can include threatening behavior (direct or indirect),
spying, uninvited appearances at a persons home, work, or place
of recreation, harassing phone calls, written messages or left objects,
and vandalizing property. Stalking can also occur via the Internet.
Incidents of stalking should not be trivialized. The act of stalking
can be extremely threatening and dangerous. Stalking behaviors may
or may not be accompanied by a credible threat of serious harm.
Stalking can lead to physical violence or death. Victims frequently
live in fear and may significantly alter their lives in an attempt
to find safety.
Who stalks and why?
Although both men and women can
be perpetrators or victims of stalking, most reported stalkers are
men. Studies indicate that stalking behavior may be a means of exerting
control over, or instilling fear in victims. Stalkers can be spouses,
ex-partners, acquaintances or strangers, however most victims know
their stalkers. Some studies indicate that stalkers develop a "love
obsession" or fixation with a person where no prior personal
relationship existed. Many instances of stalking, however, are preceded
by the existence of an intimate relationship between the stalker
and victim.
What should you do if you think
you are being stalked?
- If you are in immediate danger
go to a safe place (police station, friends, family, crisis center,
public place.)
- Upon reaching safety, contact
the Police or Crisis Center personally, to request protection,
assistance and referrals.
- If you are not able to leave
your current location dial 911 or have someone you can rely on
call the police to assist you.
- If you feel as though you are
not in immediate danger, it is still important to notify the police
about any incidents that appear to be stalking.
- Although every situation is
different, it is important to get assistance immediately to help
you to decide what the best course of action will be and to develop
a safety plan (a set of steps) that will help insure your safety.
Who on the Kansas State University
campus can assist you if you are being stalked?
- Counseling Services
(785-532-6927) offer a confidential setting providing emotional
support, counseling, guidance, and resource referrals.
- The Women's Center (785-532-6432)
provides support and advocacy for women and works to raise the
level of awareness and understanding of issues relevant to women.
They work with individuals who are filing complaints under gender-related
and sexual violence policies. They also work closely with agencies
to help women in crisis for reasons of violence or abuse, and
offer self-defense classes for women.
- Dean of Student Life Office
(785-532-6432) addresses student misconduct and oversees the student
judicial system, which has the power to enforce university policies.
- For KSU policies concerning
student misconduct go to http://www.ksu.edu/studentlife/code.html
especially #3 and #6 and for the sexual violence policy go to
http://www.ksu.edu/studentlife/SexPolicy.html .
- The Student Attorney
(785-532-6541) through Student Government is available to consult
with students regarding legal advice and resource referral.
- University Police (911
or 785-532-6412) respond to police calls that relate to the Kansas
State University (KSU) campus to include resident halls, sporting
events and any other campus location. Police can intervene and
enforce stalking laws if and when they apply. Police can also
enforce retraining orders when they are violated. However, it
is important to know that the police do not issue restraining
orders. Restraining orders are issued through the court system.
What is a Restraining Order?
A restraining order is a court
order forbidding an individual to come into contact with another
individual. If a restraining order is violated, this needs to be
reported to the police immediately. This is the only way that the
police will know that your safety is in danger, and then they can
intervene. If you have filed a restraining order you should keep
a copy of this with you at all times as proof of an existing restraining
order. It is sometimes difficult for police to verify restraining
orders and this written proof can be extremely helpful. To clarify,
if you need to get a restraining order you must go through the court
system. If you need to report a violation of that restraining order
you must call the police immediately. In cases of emergency after
court hours, an emergency protective order can be requested by the
police officer that responds to a situation that posses immediate
danger to an individual. They must receive approval from an on duty
court official. There are emergency, temporary and permanent restraining
orders. Understanding restraining orders can be very confusing.
For additional information
regarding restraining orders go to: www.stalkingassistance.com
For more information on state and federal laws
go to:
www.csia.nct/State%20Stalking%20Laws.htm
www.ncvc.org/special/stalking.htm
www.ncvc.org/laws/issues/stalking/fedstalk.htm
www.ojp.usdoj.gov/vawo/grants/stalk98/appendb.htm
www.ink.oeg/public/ksag/contents/testimony/pfa-legislation.htm
Who can assist you off campus?
- The Riley County Police
Department (911 or 785-537-2112) and the University Police
can assist you in similar ways. It is a matter of jurisdiction.
The Riley County Police Department addresses incidents involving
off campus housing, Aggie Ville, downtown and anywhere else off
of the KSU campus in Riley county. In case of any emergency the
police need to be notified immediately.
- The Crisis Center Inc.
(785-539-2785) is a confidential safe house that provides protection,
emergency shelter, advocacy, guidance and support in times of
crisis.
- Pawnee Mental Health Services
(785-587-4300) is a county run mental health agency that provides
confidential counseling services to people in the community.
Flinthills Legal Services (785-537-2943) provides legal services
to people in the community.
Where Can I get more information
on Stalking?
General Stalking Information:
Stalking Resources on the Internet:
www.ojp.usdoj.gov/vawo/grants/stalk98/appende.htm
National Center For Victims of Crime: www.ncvc.org/special/stalking.htm
Stalking and Domestic Violence: www.ojp.usdoj.gov/vawo/grants/stalk98
Violence Against Women Online Resources: www.vaw.umn.edu/stalk.asp
The Stalking Assistance Site: www.stalkingassistance.com
The Antistalking Website: www.antistalking.com
Privacy Rights Clearinghouse: www.privacyrights.org
Aardvarc.org: www.aardvarc.org
State and Federal Laws Regarding
Stalking:
Crimes and Punishments Charts:
www.crimeandpunishment.net/
National Center For Victims of Crime: www.ncvc.org/special/stalking.htm
State Stalking Laws: www.ojp.usdoj.gov/vawo/grants/stalk98/appendb.htm
National Center For Victims of Crime: www.ncvc.org
2001 Kansas legislation: www.ink.org/public/ksag/contents/testimony/pfa-legislation.htm
Restraining Orders:
Stalking Assistance Site: www.stalkingassistance.com |