I think there are four conclusions children need to make for their self-respect to thrive. Others care about me and accept me for who I am. Their acceptance has nurtured my self-respect. I am a person.

Others have encouraged me to look forward to a positive future. Their belief in me has nurtured my hope. I am gradually forming a vision for my life; I am a dreamer.

Others have helped me feel more competent. I am gradually learning self-control and recognizing my inner strength. Their guidance has nurtured my courage. I am a champion.

Others have loved and cherished me. Their affection has deepened my compassion for others. I am a friend.