The experience of care is important at all stages of childhood. The teen girl still needs the same affectionate hug from her father that meant so much to her when she was a preschooler. Unfortunately, many parents may think that their teenagers no longer need that kind of attention. Expressions of love do change and mature. Although the form may be different, the need for affection and other signs of caring are still needed.

Recall the special people in your life who provided (or could have provided) love and affection. Did this experience, good or bad, have an effect on your self-respect?