Hope in accomplishment
Responding to your descriptions of success and involvement is impossible because I don’t know what you have written. Even so, I certainly hope that I can meet your expectations. It’s possible that you are being pressured to be here. You might even be feeling a little aggravated by the whole idea of sitting at a computer in order to make an important decision. You might be feeling a little anxious about being or becoming a father. My purpose here is to do the best job I can to present the issues that affect becoming a father. I hope to do this in a friendly conversational manner instead of the style of a cool, distant academic.
To a great extent, though, achieving what you hope to accomplish will depend on your investment of time, effort, and a willingness to reach down inside yourself to explore your past and what it means for your future. So success depends on our partnership.