Over the next week begin strengthening your
ability to react to emotionally charged encounters with your child
with the STOP! step. When your heart starts to beat fast and you
feel the heat rising to your face, shout to yourself, STOP! then
take a full deep breath, followed by a slow exhalation. Get into
the practice of giving yourself some emotional space to help you
think about how you might respond.
If you are keeping a journal, describe the difficulties you
have to face in finding this moment of peace in difficult circumstances.
Is pulling back a little contributing to your self-confidence?
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