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Tool
#3. Demonstrate the desirable behavior yourself
Definition:
Show children what to do if they are unfamiliar with the behavior. Make
the demonstration as simple as possible. This tool is more limited if the
behavior the parent wants to teach cannot be demonstrated easily.
Example:
When
he becomes frustrated and angry, father talks about his feelings
without putting his children down. When his 4-year-old broke the
stereo he said, Jamie, you broke my stereo. I feel very sad. Angry,
too, because I know you know you are not supposed to touch it. He
wants to show his children how to express their own anger nonviolently. |
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