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Tool
#47. Allow natural consequences
Definition:
Let the child experience the natural results of a misbehavior. These results
should not be physically harmful to the child. The natural consequences
of the behavior should be sufficiently unpleasant to motivate the child
to change.
Examples:
Mother
has warned her 3-year-old about rough play with his trucks. She remains
quiet one afternoon when she sees him banging it on the floor. After a
few moments, the truck breaks and the child begins to cry.
Instead
of getting himself up for work when his alarm goes off, a teenager has
consistently overslept. To this point, his parents have managed to get
him to work on time by nagging at him to get him up. Tired of the badgering,
his parents have warned him he is now on his own. One morning, father hears
the alarm but does nothing to wake his son. The young man is late for work
and is reprimanded by his boss. He now wakes up promptly when his alarm
sounds. |
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