My touchstones, strengths, and grimstones
My Touchstones: I love to write and create. I enjoy graphic artistry in preparing web pages. I enjoy meeting authentic people. I like computer games and going for walks in the woods. I like living in a long-term home. I like cuddling, friendly handshakes, and the laughter of children.
                                     
My Strengths: I am a good writer and public speaker. I think I have a flair for design.
                                                                                        
Grimstones: I hate small talk, insincerity, bragging, people who want to impress me with their wealth, committee meetings, unproductive work.

What do we share and how are we different? Can you add any more to your list?

Our self-respect depends on a life based on experiencing touchstones that are strengths while avoiding grimstones.