In terms of locus of control, how did your
parents raise you? Did they focus primarily on rewards and punishments
or did they encourage you to learn standards that you would use
to guide your own behavior? How about your own children?
How would you characterize your child rearing along a dimension
of control from totally external and reward/punishment oriented
to totally internal through the use of reasoning, articulating
limits, and engaging children in a reflection about their behavior?
Don't worry if you are not sure of your response. The difference
between these two forms of control will become clearer as the
course progresses.
If you are keeping a journal, summarize your thoughts about
the importance of rewards and punishments and what might happen
if you rely on them too much.
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